Some people call me lucky: they think I could belong to both sides. In fact, I don't belong
to any of them at all.
Shouldn’t we teach girls how to deal with sexism before they can pinpoint a time in their life that they realized they weren’t treated as equal? Wouldn’t the feminist movement be stronger if we didn’t only approach issues retroactively?
A woman’s pleasure has never been as valued as a man’s pleasure in heterosexual relationships. Not only is sex primarily for men’s enjoyment, but it turns straight women into objects to be used— like living glory holes.
I was not drawn at any one moment to try on my girlfriend’s clothes. Rather, it was an
accumulation of desire. Not desired all at once, but slowly.